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Wigs, wigs and even more WIGS

lace front wig

Why wigs

They are a great protective hairstyle, just cornrow your hair and slip it on.

They require little maintenance, just a few washes.

They are cheap (in the long run) compared to salon hairstyles.

If they are done right, there will be no loss of hair.

If you get real human hair wigs, you can colour, curl and straighten to your hearts content.

You can keep the same wig for YEARS if you take care of it.

So why not. I will insert some youtube videos that will show you haw to take care of your wigs, how to style them and how to get them ready for your head.

How to pluck your wig to make it more natural. Wigs tend to have a bulge that give them away, this is how to get rid of it:

How to install lace frontal:

How to bleach your  lace wig to blend it to you skin you can buy a bleached one before:

For those with courage, How to make your own wig:

 

 

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DIY conditioner recipes.

These conditioning recipes leaves your hair feeling soft and manageable. It imparts a ton of moisture to your hair, trust me.

Things to note:

  1. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE (I am literally on my knees and begging you) do not forget to strain any fruit or vegetables BEFORE you put them into your hair. You will spend weeks trying to get it off if you do. Speaking from experience.
  2. Lemon can bleach your hair so be careful if you choose to use it.
  3. Test coconut milk and oil on small patches before applying it to your full head of hair. It mimics proteins and can leave your hair feeling hard and brittle. I have never experienced this (my hair loves coconut oil) but there are many who have complained. If you buy it and your hair hates it, you can just eat it. Simple. No waste.
  4. These recipes are food based, so make enough for one time use.

 

Recipe 1:

Ingredients needed:

  • 1 Cup coconut milk
  • 2 Tablespoons Olive oil
  • 1 Avocado

How to make:

  • Mash avocado and strain it using a cheesecloth or similar strainer
  • Mix strained avocado with rest of the ingredients

To use:

Put on your hair cover with a shower cap. Wrap that with a towel and leave on your head for 45 min to an hour. Rinse out with your shampoo and deep condition after.

 

Recipe 2:

Ingredients needed:

  • Coconut milk
  • Pure coconut oil
  • Honey
  • Lemon juice/Apple cider vinegar
  • Gelatin powder

How to make:

  • Pour 1 cup of coconut milk in a pan and place it on low heat
  • Add 2 tbsp of coconut oil in this milk and stir it well
  • In a separate bowl add 2 tbsp of gelatin powder
  • Pour this powder in coconut milk and stir it well until coconut milk attains a semi thick consistency
  • Remove the pan from heat and allow mixture to cool slightly
  • Once mixture has cooled, mix 2 tsp lemon juice and 2 tbsp of honey

How to use:

  • Comb your clean hair
  • Divide your hair in small sections
  • With help of hair brush apply this cream all over your hair
  • With help of fingers straight your hairs
  • Leave for 30 minutes
  • Rinse hair with plain water

 

Recipe 3:

This one is for those who do not like coconut in any form, oil or milk

Ingredients to use:

  • One banana (or half if you have short hair, eat the rest 😉
  • One avocado (do the same as banana)
  • Optional Greek yoghurt
  • Olive or Grapeseed oil or any follicle penetrating oil of you choice.

 

How to make:

  • Mash bananas and avocado (preferably in a blender)
  • Strain the mixture
  • Add the yoghurt and oil

How to use:

Put mixture in hair and cover with plastic cap for 30 minutes to an hour. Wash and condition if needed.

 

Why I love these:

These masks are great for my hair, they leave it feeling strong and soft. It is also an experience, you have to leave these in for a long time and that means you can only do them on free days. Turn it into a spa day and spoil yourself. Start with hair and work your way to face and body. Just set two to three hours of your day for yourself

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Why washing hair regularly is important

Okay, right into the topic of this blog: hair, black hair and washing. Important and absolutely necessary for maintaining not only a healthy head of ‘fro, but also a growing one. One of the most banal things I heard while growing up (we all have stories about hair myths don’t we? Like the Sunlight Dishwashing liquid one…or was I the only one?) Continue reading Why washing hair regularly is important

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Them Coils Though! The Moisture Factory & a ‘how-to-get-your-coils-popping’ short story.

Firstly, thank you for recognizing that I got my coils popping. I’m excited to share how I got it done because why do we need to have hair secrets? We want all our sister’s roaming with their bomb ‘fros! So, let’s start with the fact that I have been keeping my hair in a protective style this entire year, but after the trauma of my December micro-braids, I am weary of running over to the salon for more braids (no thank you! I’ll wait for Andile and Mandisa to come home first).

Every week, I detangle and wash my hair and treat it to a good deep condition, but I didn’t have the best leave-in; I was using Cantu Leave-in Treatment, but it wasn’t playing nice with all the other products I was using, so my ends weren’t staying as moisturized and I was forced to keep using the leave-in (because I wasn’t about to buy another Cantu product, that price-tag…but I’m working on my budget I promise).

Fast-forward to about two weeks ago, my big sis and I went to the Brown Sense market in Midrand (for some amazing burgers from Streatz nomnom) and on our second stroll around the different stands, this lovely gent stops me and asks me to come check out this hair stall. I walk up, sceptical because wow, I like hair products so much, and I do not want to be hoodwinked and then be forced to write a bad review on a South African product. HEY! Was I not wrong? Was I not mistaken? Was I not feeling so many ways when I sat down and saw what this potion was doing to my hair! Dear reader, do not be fooled, I became a believer in The Moisture Factory that day. (www.themoisturefactory.co.za/blog). Tad bit of detangler, and some curl custard, and the section of hair Sis’Nyakalo had selected to sample the product on my hair was doing the things: properly defined curls and extreme hydration. Then she added another level which had revolutionized my hair care regimen, especially when it comes to protective styling; she finger-coiled my hair’s natural clumps before putting the section in a twist. And I’m thinking, “how have I been living any other way?”

 

I bet this all makes a riveting read, but I’m not getting down the facts! These are they:

1). Originals by Africa’s Best Olive Oil Shampoo,

2). Dr Palmer’s Coconut Oil Deep Conditioning Protein Pack,

3). The Moisture Factory’s Curl Custard,

4). African Pride Olive Miracle Growth Oil, and a DIY leave-in/’hydration spritzer made up of 5). Dark ‘n Lovely Au Naturale Knot Out Conditioner,

6). Jabu Stone Multi-Purpose Spray,

and Water with a little splash of African Pride Olive Oil Growth Oil (yes, it’s still my favourite, comment which oil elixir I should try out next) for when the hiar sections I hadn’t started with started drying.

This is the order in which I used the products too (take note), with the key ingredients being the Deep Conditioner and the curl custard. If I had the detangler from The Moisture Factory (or Aunt Jackie’s maybe?), then I believe I would have reduced the time it took to get my hair properly detangled and the coils popping. No kidding, it took me about four to six hours to do everything, but it was worth it so there is nothing to complain about. You have to accept that it will take a while to get into a routine with your ‘fro, ok’salayo your hair will stay healthy and keep growing. When finger coiling, I chose to stay with my hair’s natural curl pattern (and since I have tight coils it took longer), and where the curl pattern wasn’t defined, I added a little more curl custard.

You can try a larger finger coil—I’ll be trying that next—but keeping it natural hopefully means less work detangling, and if the theory of training your coils needs to be proven, this may be the secret.

Then, when I had finished finger coiling a large enough section, I sealed the section with some African Pride Olive Miracle Growth oil, and twisted in the section. Please be careful not to pull on your coils too tight when twisting in the section; you’ll see that your coils will stay together quite well, and then you can finger coil the end of the twist easily too since you won’t have unravelled the coils and of course, the curl custard being a monster hydration potion. If you look closely, you should be able to see the difference between a twist-in that doesn’t have hair separated in its coil cluster, and this twist in.

Some photos to explain better later, and I just left my hair in these twists for two or three days because life was happening and I had no reason to wear my hair out. But the weekend came around and I wanted to see what the result was, so I went on the YouTube to check how one takes out a finger coil to look more like a chilled fro and basically, I used my DIY leave-in to loosen the coil for the volume and ‘fro effect, and African Pride Olive Oil to seal the moisture and reseal the individual coils now that they were out of the twist. I left the front and top coils quite tight more for the look of it (and because I was in a rush to get done since my sunshine nice was on her way for a visit).

Well, that’s how I did mine, please share photos of the results if you try it out using this method; please share what products work for you, and if you use a different method, please let us know so we can also get amazing results. Remember real’fros stay moisturized and stay growing with patience and loving yours at whatever length.

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How to grow long hair

Stop over manipulation

 

You cannot do vigorous hairstyles on your hair everyday. If you have a hairstyle that needs to be redone every day or so – you are over manipulating your hair.  Examples of over manipulation: Continue reading How to grow long hair

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Things I won’t be doing to my hair anytime soon

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Whether it’s heavy micro-braids (see Ki Dezemba post), dry hair under bad wigs, or bone dry hair from a blow dryer; there are certain no-no’s that are to never be repeated again if you care about that beautiful crown you call your hair.

Before we get to the good times of great coils and happy ‘fros that bounce around in the sun all year round, we need to make sure we have the basics down. We need to make use of the best hair potions and techniques, because your ‘fro knows that it cannot do it alone! For most of of the Real ‘Fro partners (okay, all of us), the journey began not more than five years ago, and mistakes have been made along the way; here are some basic don’ts to keep the kink in your hair kicking. Continue reading Things I won’t be doing to my hair anytime soon

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A little catch-up time…

Hair tucked under Ma's new blue scarf, she became The Thinker

Wow.

It has been a little longer than a minute and far too deep into this new and wonderful year; but the realfros keep popping and certainly growing. Andile and Mandisa’s hair looks amazing: completely tangle free (well, mostly, say 95% tangle free); so well moisturized and nourished, and coils strong and shiny; which means great health and better length retention! My hair, on the other, unfortunate hand, has stagnated in this natural hair journey. Continue reading A little catch-up time…